Lifestyle Event Etiquette: The Essential Guide for New Members
Everything you need to know about lifestyle event etiquette — how to behave, what to expect, and how to have the best possible experience at your first PCS event.
Attending your first lifestyle event can feel daunting. What should you wear? How do you introduce yourselves? What are the unwritten rules?
Before You Arrive
Read the event details: Every PCS event has specific details regarding dress code, venue, timings and any special instructions.
Dress appropriately: PCS events are premium experiences. Smart evening wear is typically expected.
Arrive on time: Our events often have an early social window specifically for arrivals and introductions.
At the Event
Introductions
Introduce yourselves as a couple. Start with your first names — no surnames are necessary.
No Pressure Culture
The cardinal rule of lifestyle etiquette is that no means no, always. There is no pressure on anyone to do anything they are not comfortable with.
Consent Is Explicit
Consent in the lifestyle is explicit, not assumed.
Discretion
What happens at a PCS event stays at PCS events. No photography. No sharing member details with non-members.
After the Event
Connect via the PCS platform if you made a genuine connection.
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